Deadlocks · defusion
A shared history, told both ways
Teach each side's children the other side's story alongside their own, so that the other people's grief stops being invisible.
Joint textbooks and curricula that set the two narratives side by side, as this site's timeline does, rather than forcing a single story; joint teacher training; museums and memorial days that name both peoples' losses.
The deadlocks it addresses
Where it has been tried
- The Franco-German joint history textbook (2006) — worked. Former enemies wrote a shared history text for their schools, sixty years after the war.
- PRIME's dual-narrative textbook (2003–) — partly. Israeli and Palestinian teachers wrote the two narratives side by side; both education ministries barred its use in schools.
- The joint Israeli–Palestinian memorial and Nakba ceremonies (Combatants for Peace and the Parents Circle–Families Forum, since 2005) — partly. Bereaved Israelis and Palestinians mourn together on the eve of Israel's Memorial Day, and a second ceremony on 15 May marks the Nakba. The organisers report over 15,000 people in person in Tel Aviv in 2023 and 300,000 watching the live broadcast in 2022 (their figures), and fierce opposition. The recognition runs mostly one way: the texts describe Israel's mainstream memorial ceremonies as reinforcing 'narratives of pain, victimhood, and hopelessness' and adopt the Palestinian account of the Nakba as expulsion and ongoing 'ethnic cleansing'; the organisers' pages list no joint ceremony for the Jews who fled or were expelled from Arab countries. A model for mourning together, not yet for two histories told on equal terms.
What you have to believe for it to work
- Schools on both sides can teach it without being shut down
- A new generation raised on both stories will choose differently
These are the assumptions the future solution builder will let you set yourself.
What has to happen first
- Governments willing to let schools teach the other narrative
How it can fail
- Each side calls it propaganda for the other
- It's dropped at the first escalation