Deadlocks ยท defusion

A gesture that breaks the frame

One act so unexpected that the other side's picture of you can't absorb it: a leader going to the enemy's capital, an apology, a release, a visit.

The deadlocks are sustained by each side's picture of the other ('they only understand force', 'they want us gone'). A gesture that doesn't fit the picture forces a rethink, not by argument but by surprise.

The deadlocks it addresses

Where it has been tried

  • Sadat's visit to Jerusalem (1977) โ€” worked. An Arab head of state speaking in the Knesset changed Israeli public opinion almost overnight and led to the 1979 treaty; Sadat was assassinated in 1981.
  • King Hussein's condolence visit (1997) โ€” worked. After a Jordanian soldier killed seven Israeli schoolgirls, the king knelt before their families; it kept the young peace intact.
  • Rabin's handshake and his assassination (1993โ€“95) โ€” partly. The gesture moved millions and cost him his life at the hands of an Israeli extremist.

What you have to believe for it to work

  • The public on the other side is watching and can be moved
  • The leader making the gesture survives it politically

These are the assumptions the future solution builder will let you set yourself.

What has to happen first

  • A leader with the standing and courage to do it

How it can fail

  • The gesture is read as weakness at home
  • Spoilers target the person who made it